Imagine this...
You wake up feeling centred, not scattered.
Your days have rhythm and joy—not just rush and responsibility.
You’re present with your children—not just physically, but emotionally.
You feel like you again—lit up, expressive, grounded in your own voice.
This isn’t a fantasy. It’s what begins when you start living Lights On®.
Not from pressure, perfection or parenting hacks—but from a shift inside yourself.
Inside Lights On® Families, you’ll reconnect with your spark, your creativity, and your power as a mother.
And as you come alive—you’ll watch your whole family light up too.
From this...
Watching your child shut down, melt down, or switch off—and not knowing how to help
Feeling constantly on edge, snapping, then drowning in guilt
Living in overdrive—meeting everyone’s needs but never your own
Losing your voice, your joy, your sense of self
Feeling like you’re barely holding it together, let alone leading
To this...
Understanding your child’s disengagement—and meeting them with calm confidence
Feeling steady, soft, and proud of how you respond (even on hard days)
Creating a rhythm that supports everyone’s wellbeing—including yours
Reconnecting with your creativity, your clarity, your spark
Leading your family with joy—not perfection, but presence
This is a powerful, proven approach to living and flourishing as a mother
Lights On® Living is a flexible, supportive membership created by award-winning changemaker Julia Black.
This work is grounded in Julia’s decade-long research into creativity, neuroscience, and family dynamics as outlined in her bestselling book:
Lights On Learning: A Parent’s Blueprint for Curious, Fulfilled Kids.
Inside the membership, you’ll experience the simplicity of the Lights On® Spectrum that’s helping helping mothers move from burnout to brilliance.

‘If you’re ready to stop pretending and start living fully, Julia is the one to follow.’ Maria
🔥 What You Get When You Join Lights On Families
A creative rhythm that supports you weekly—so you stay lit up, even when life feels full.
🔥 Becoming Lights On -
Your rhythm + reset
Weekly community-led Spark Sessions and gentle daily prompts to help you notice your Lights On and Lights Off states—so you can stay centred and emotionally available, even in the chaos of family life.
🎨 The Dressing Up Box
Your creative playground
A space to play, express, and create—just for you. These prompts and collaborations reconnect you with your spark and purpose, helping you model creativity, confidence and curiosity to your children.
🎬 Strong Female Lead
Your spotlight
Monthly masterclasses with Julia Black to look into your shadows and switch on your lights. These are invaluable and will help you rise into courageous, authentic leadership—in your life, your creativity, and your family.
🎁 BONUS: Becoming Lights On
We're gifting you our flagship programme (originally an investment of £1400) to binge or go steadily through. This is your roadmap on how to become self-aware, aspirational, fulfilled, aligned and abundant. When you shine your family does too.
Meet Julia Black

Julia is a mother of two young adults, a respected educator, certified master neurocoach, filmmaker, and best-selling author.
She lives her life 'Happy by choice, not circumstance' and loves dressing up and living as if she was in a musical!
As the creator of Lights On®, Julia has developed a groundbreaking and transformative framework designed to empower parents and children to reconnect with their inner spark to awaken their full potential and ensure they can flourish in any environment.
‘Every time I share my vision of a world where children love learning I feel a mix of emotions - both Lights on and Lights off at the same time. A perfect blend of creative energy that reminds me this is a daring dream. It fills me with fear to pronounce it and pride to proclaim it as a possibility in my lifetime.’
Nominated for both the Bafta and Grierson Awards for her unflinching work as a documentary filmmaker, Julia became a Parent Governor at her children's school. During that time, she was awarded the NCPTA Gold Star for transforming the life of a school in 2010, an achievement that ignited her commitment to finding a vibrant alternative to traditional paradigms of parenting, education, and self-leadership, culminating in the Lights On Spectrum.
‘As an educator of over 25 years, I was blown away by Lights On. Based on cutting edge educational practice, the neuroscience of teaching and learning, and research on mental well-being. It’s this combination that sets it apart. This really is top notch and implementing it does bring about whole family transformation, as we are discovering!’ Paula Taylor-Williams - Educator
Inside Lights On Living, you’ll meet her live every month to ask questions and receive the power of her group coaching.
‘Lights On has been life-changing for me. It helped me focus and identify the 'something more' I’ve been searching for. My family is benefiting from me, as CEO of my family, taking action each day to walk towards the ideal family life we can choose.’ Georgie
🕰 New to the idea of a community membership?
Think of Lights On® Living as your creative wellbeing space—online.
One place. Three powerful supports. Weekly rhythm. No pressure.
You’ll get:
✅ Live sessions + creative prompts
✅ Coaching and connection
✅ Masterclasses and replays
✅ A full self-paced course
✅ A powerful community who understand you
All for one simple monthly price.
Join when you’re ready. Leave when you’ve got what you came for.
What Lights On Mothers Are Saying
‘One of the best things I’ve invested in since motherhood.’
Claire
‘The biggest win has been to embed a whole different culture in our family. The way we talk about learning has changed. The language we use has changed.’
Karen
‘This community gave me the courage to be seen and heard as me. No masks. Just real connection.’
Rachel
‘In just a week I’ve gone from stuck, overwhelmed and resentful to liberated, joyful and purposeful. Truly miraculous.’
Kate
‘I’m showing up differently in my family, with more presence and calm. I didn’t realise how much I’d lost myself until I found this space.’
Fiona
‘When I thankfully stumbled across Julia, it all made sense. I didn’t need to fix my daughter. I needed to let her breathe and role model what I was asking of her but demonstrating so badly.’
Maria
‘The LOU community has been the only place I’ve felt truly safe to explore who I am without judgment.’
Nikki
‘Now I see, I can walk through the wall of doubt, fear, and self-judgement.’
Susy
‘This space held me when I didn’t even know I needed holding.’
Ellie
‘It was like the final piece in the puzzle. I now understand how to lead from the inside out.’
Joanne
‘If I can begin to conquer me, I see how that will ripple down to others in my life.’
Alison
‘I’ve started listening to my instincts again. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being present.’
Louise
‘It’s given me a language and a lens to help me understand myself and my children. I’m parenting with more joy and less fear.’
Helen
Just £35/month
Cancel anytime. Everything included.
Just one powerful space to reclaim your spark—and lead from your natural radiance.
If you know you were born for a reason but haven't yet found it. Lights On Living will feel like coming home.
PLEASE NOTE
Due to ios taxes the cost of the membership in the IOS app is more expensive so we suggest you purchased your membership from a web browser at community.lightsonuniverse,com and once you have signed up you can use the app.